A curated, event-driven matchmaking platform that turns real-world chemistry into intentional introductions.

Forget endless swipes, cringy speed dating events and mediocre dates. We curate meaningful matches for people who want more. More ambition. More spark. More romance.

We don’t want you on our list—we want you on your wedding registry (but not before you brag to your friends about us).

Our platform blends exclusivity with accessibility — because real love shouldn’t require a million-dollar membership.

Welcome to The Love List, a private, carefully curated community where accomplished singles connect in real life, not through endless swiping. Every member is vetted, every experience intentionally designed.

We offer curated experiences when you want to mingle (The Love List events) and thoughtful one-on-one introductions when you want something more personal.

Our gatherings are as memorable as the people who attend them. And even if you don’t meet the one that evening, you’ll leave with meaningful connections, new social circles, and moments worth remembering.

The atmosphere? Sophisticated, respectful, and subtly flirtatious. Clear standards and mutual accountability — including a no-ghosting culture — allow everyone to relax, be themselves, and enjoy the experience.

Step away from the apps. Join the list. Because dating should feel exceptional again.

Join The Love List Or Submit Your Friends.

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Meet The Founder

Alexa Curtis is a Two-Time Serial Entrepreneur from Mansfield, Connecticut who has now built much of her social media presence around being fearless and getting out of your comfort zone. She used to host a show called Fearless Everyday on Radio Disney and now she’s the founder of the #1 customized microphone cover brand, Chief Swag Officer.

💌 The Love List — For the singles who want in.
Ready to skip the apps and meet your match in real life? This is your ticket to the city’s most dateable crowd.

The Wing List — For the singles who don’t know they need in.
Know someone who’s too good to still be single? Nominate them. If they make the cut, you’ll go down in matchmaking history.

Whether you’re putting yourself in the game or playing Cupid for someone else… just remember: once they’re on the list, everything changes.

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