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Curated & Vetted Attendees
Our gatherings are private and exclusive. Every attendee is personally vetted prior to attending, ensuring a respectful, safe, and engaging atmosphere. We bring together people from a wide variety of backgrounds, lifestyles, and professions, making every conversation fresh and meaningful. Even if you don’t meet a match, 90% of our attendees walk away with solid new friends!
Age-Group Mixers
Each event is tailored to a specific age group, but with flexibility built in. If you feel comfortable, you may RSVP for an event if you are up to seven years older or younger than the group’s range. This allows for more natural connections, while keeping the group dynamic balanced and enjoyable.
What to Expect
Small, invite-only gatherings for genuine conversations
Rotating locations across New England
Thoughtfully matched groups for better social chemistry
A chance to meet people who share your interests, values, and outlook
Why We’re Different
Unlike open public mixers, our approach focuses on quality over quantity. We value intentional connections and strive to create a welcoming environment where attendees can expand their social circles, spark friendships, and maybe even find something more.
The Love List Singles Mixer: Groton
Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List event is designed for those 20s to 40s who are serious about finding something real.
This isn’t speed dating.
This isn’t a crowded bar.
It’s The Love List experience — intentional matchmaking, a refined setting, and a carefully curated group of people who are ready to build meaningful, lasting connections.
How it works:
Apply to attend. Upon approval, you’ll receive your personal invitation with full event details and the private location.
If you’re ready to stop swiping, show up with intention, and spend an evening meeting people who actually want commitment — this event is for you.
The Love List Singles Mixer
Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List event is designed for those 20s to 40s who are serious about finding something real.
This isn’t speed dating.
This isn’t a crowded bar.
It’s The Love List experience — intentional matchmaking, a refined setting, and a carefully curated group of people who are ready to build meaningful, lasting connections.
How it works:
Apply to attend. Upon approval, you’ll receive your personal invitation with full event details and the private location.
If you’re ready to stop swiping, show up with intention, and spend an evening meeting people who actually want commitment — this event is for you.
The Love List Singles Mixer Mansion Party
This isn’t your average singles mixer.
Join us for an exclusive dating experience hosted by Alexa Curtis, happening Saturday, July 25th, 2026. Similar to our first ever event in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, this event is curated for authentic connections, during an event that brings together dynamic singles from across the state in an elevated, no-pressure setting. But here’s the twist—you won’t know who’s attending until you walk through the door.
This is not your typical swipe-right kind of night. We’ve spent weeks reviewing nearly 1,000 entries to match attendees based on compatibility, interests, and relationship goals.
Important Details:
Event Duration: 2 hours
Date: Saturday, July 25th
Location: Norwalk, Connecticut (exact details shared with confirmed attendees)
Dress Code:
Women: Feminine dresses or jeans with a stylish top
Men: Denim or slacks with appropriate shoes (no gym attire)
Overall: Business casual / polished and event-appropriate
Tickets:
You have 24 hours to secure your spot
Tickets are non-refundable
If you can’t attend, your ticket will be honored at a future event (no exceptions)
Why is my ticket $100? Because it costs us that to rent a space and organize this event!
The Love List Singles Mixer
Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List event is designed for those 20s to 40s who are serious about finding something real.
This isn’t speed dating.
This isn’t a crowded bar.
It’s The Love List experience — intentional matchmaking, a refined setting, and a carefully curated group of people who are ready to build meaningful, lasting connections.
How it works:
Apply to attend. Upon approval, you’ll receive your personal invitation with full event details and the private location.
If you’re ready to stop swiping, show up with intention, and spend an evening meeting people who actually want commitment — this event is for you.
The Love List Singles Mixer
15 SPOTS ONLY.
This exclusive Love List experience is designed for singles in their late 20s through 40s who are serious about finding something real.
This isn’t speed dating.
This isn’t a crowded bar.
This is The Love List Experience — intentional matchmaking, a refined and private setting, and a carefully curated group of people who are ready for meaningful, lasting connections.
How it works:
Apply to attend. Once approved, you’ll receive a personal invitation with full event details and the private location.
If you’re ready to stop swiping, show up with intention, and spend your afternoon meeting people who actually want commitment — this event was made for you.
DESTINATION Love List: BOSTON
THE LOVE LIST DESTINATION.
This exclusive Love List experience is designed for singles in their late 20s/30s through 50s who are serious about finding something real.
This isn’t speed dating.
This isn’t a crowded bar.
This is The Love List Experience — intentional matchmaking, a refined and private setting, and a carefully curated group of people who are ready for meaningful, lasting connections.
How it works:
Apply to attend. Once approved, you’ll receive a personal invitation with full event details and the private location.
If you’re ready to stop swiping, show up with intention, and spend your afternoon meeting people who actually want commitment — this event was made for you.
The Valentine's Day Mashup
IT'S VALENTINE'S DAY, LOVE LISTERS.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
Small apps + one drink will be provided.
Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships.
If you’re ready to commit and want access to the full Love List experience, this event is for you.
The Love List Manchester
Step into an unforgettable afternoon designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in Manchester, Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated for 21-35 who are serious about finding meaningful connections.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
Small apps + one drink will be provided.
Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships.
If you’re ready to commit and want access to the full Love List experience, this event is for you.
RSVP HERE!
The Love List Singles Mixer
Hosted at a secret location in West Hartford, Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated for mid-twenties to mid-fourties who are serious about finding meaningful connections.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
Small apps + one drink will be provided.
Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships.
If you’re ready to commit and want access to the full Love List experience, this event is for you.
RSVP HERE.
The Love List Singles Mixer (30-45)
Step into an unforgettable evening designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in Danbury, Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated with our vetted applicants.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships.
Small apps + one drink will be provided.
If you’re ready to commit and want access to the full Love List experience, this event is for you.