Upcoming events
The Love List events
Finding your person doesn’t always happen in one night… that’s why 9 out of 10 people return to The Love List — because they know love is worth showing up for!
Please note: we do not offer refunds on events. Event locations are not disclosed until ticket is purchased to maintain exclusivity.
The ages of event attendees can fluctuate + or - 5 or so years, so please choose the event you feel like works the best for you!
Curated & Vetted Attendees
Our gatherings are private and exclusive. Every attendee is personally vetted prior to attending, ensuring a respectful, safe, and engaging atmosphere. We bring together people from a wide variety of backgrounds, lifestyles, and professions, making every conversation fresh and meaningful. Even if you don’t meet a match, 90% of our attendees walk away with solid new friends!
Age-Group Mixers
Each event is tailored to a specific age group, but with flexibility built in. If you feel comfortable, you may RSVP for an event if you are up to seven years older or younger than the group’s range. This allows for more natural connections, while keeping the group dynamic balanced and enjoyable.
What to Expect
Small, invite-only gatherings for genuine conversations
Rotating locations across New England
Thoughtfully matched groups for better social chemistry
A chance to meet people who share your interests, values, and outlook
Why We’re Different
Unlike open public mixers, our approach focuses on quality over quantity. We value intentional connections and strive to create a welcoming environment where attendees can expand their social circles, spark friendships, and maybe even find something more.
It’s Cuffing Season (21+)
ALL AGES STARTING AT AGE 21:
Step into an unforgettable evening designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in central Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated for individuals ages 21+ who are serious about finding meaningful connections.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships.
If you’re ready to commit and want access to the full Love List experience, this event is for you.
The Love List Singles Mixer (45-60)
Step into an unforgettable evening designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in Hamden, Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated with our vetted applicants.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships.
Small apps + one drink will be provided.
If you’re ready to commit and want access to the full Love List experience, this event is for you.
The Love List Singles Mixer (30-45)
Step into an unforgettable evening designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in Danbury, Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated with our vetted applicants.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
Upon approval by The Love List, you’ll receive your personal invitation with event details and location. This isn’t just another night out — it’s an opportunity to experience The Love List difference: intentional matchmaking, an elegant setting, and the chance to meet others who share your commitment to building lasting relationships.
Small apps + one drink will be provided.
If you’re ready to commit and want access to the full Love List experience, this event is for you.