Dating shouldfeel exceptionalagain.

At The Love List, we believe modern dating has become too focused on photographs, instant judgments, and endless options. Our process is intentionally different. We ask our members to remain open-minded, trust the expertise of our matchmaking team, and allow genuine compatibility to take priority over a profile picture.

The anti-app manifesto

We’re bringing matchmaking back without the hefty price tag.

People who want
more.
Real people. Real chemistry. No AI.
Alexa Curtis.
Meet the founder

Alexa Curtis.

I’m Alexa Curtis, founder of The Love List.

After watching dating become consumed by swiping, ghosting, and endless apps, I knew there had to be a better way. I wanted to bring dating back to what actually matters—real conversations, genuine chemistry, and meaningful connections.

That’s why I created The Love List.

We offer a luxury, personalized matchmaking experience where every introduction is thoughtfully curated by real matchmakers, not algorithms. From exclusive events to one-on-one matchmaking, everything we do is designed to make meeting someone feel exciting, intentional, and effortless.

Dating should be about people—not profiles. Our mission is simple: get people off the apps and back to meeting in real life.

Fearless, but intentional.

Newsletter

Dating tips, matchmaking updates, and exclusive member offers — straight to your inbox.

Dating shouldfeel exceptionalagain.

At The Love List, we believe modern dating has become too focused on photographs, instant judgments, and endless options. Our process is intentionally different. We ask our members to remain open-minded, trust the expertise of our matchmaking team, and allow genuine compatibility to take priority over a profile picture.

The anti-app manifesto

We’re bringing matchmaking back without the hefty price tag.

People who want
more.
Real people. Real chemistry. No AI.
Alexa Curtis.
Meet the founder

Alexa Curtis.

I’m Alexa Curtis, founder of The Love List.

After watching dating become consumed by swiping, ghosting, and endless apps, I knew there had to be a better way. I wanted to bring dating back to what actually matters—real conversations, genuine chemistry, and meaningful connections.

That’s why I created The Love List.

We offer a luxury, personalized matchmaking experience where every introduction is thoughtfully curated by real matchmakers, not algorithms. From exclusive events to one-on-one matchmaking, everything we do is designed to make meeting someone feel exciting, intentional, and effortless.

Dating should be about people—not profiles. Our mission is simple: get people off the apps and back to meeting in real life.

Fearless, but intentional.

Newsletter

Dating tips, matchmaking updates, and exclusive member offers — straight to your inbox.