• The Love List began with a women’s group Alexa Curtis launched in January 2025. After seeing how many incredible women were looking for real connections, she started reaching out to men to make thoughtful introductions. Those early matches took off—and The Love List was born.

  • The best way to get involved immediately is to RSVP to an event under “events” on jointhelovelist.com. We put together curated matchmaking events based on your profile.

  • Our founder, Alexa, has spent years building community. She met her partner through a party she attended, and we believe in the power of connections made in real life, not virtually.

  • The Love List does not offer refunds. If you can’t attend, you may transfer your ticket to a future event—just email jointhelovelist@gmail.com at least 24 hours before your scheduled event.

  • This is for anyone in New England looking for a new way to date.

  • Your profile and personal data are kept private and only viewed by our team. If you don’t want to appear in any photos or videos at events or on TikTok, let us know and we’ll mark your account no photo/no video. Email jointhelovelist@gmail.com (ideally 24+ hours before the event) or tell a staff member at check-in.

  • Originally from Mansfield, Alexa is a 27-year-old serial entrepreneur who is the founder and CEO of the #1 customizable microphone cover company, Chief Swag Officer.

    She used to host a show called Fearless Everyday on Radio Disney, and hosts a weekly newsletter and podcast called Dare To Be Fearless now.

  • We have a variety of men and women on our list who are between ages 40-65, so yes!

  • A curated experience with vetted people at different locations across Connecticut.

  • Following our first event in Old Saybrook, three matches have been reported to our team and countless friendships.

  • Men: we suggest you wear jeans/slacks, a cool pair of kicks or loafers, and a nice shirt.

    Women: Wear something feminine that feels authentic to you—comfortable, confident, and you. Our events are relationship-focused and respectful, so there’s no pressure to dress for a one-night vibe.

  • Interested in helping with future events/social media and content? Email jointhelovelist@gmail.com

  • We’re not traditional, certified matchmakers—and that’s by design. Instead of following the old-school, one-size-fits-all approach, we’ve developed a method that’s modern, community-driven, and highly effective.

    Our process focuses on bringing together people with genuine compatibility, using real preferences, values, and lifestyle factors (not just surface-level traits).

    The results speak for themselves: our members consistently tell us that our method feels more natural, fun, and successful than what they’ve tried elsewhere. While we don’t call ourselves “professional matchmakers,” our approach works—because it’s built around what people are actually looking for today.

  • We currently set up phone calls with all of our male applicants to personally match them with women at our in-person events.

    In the next 4–8 weeks, we’ll be launching a new model that allows us to matchmake for you directly — no event attendance required.

  • Hang tight! We review applications on a rolling basis and carefully match people behind the scenes for our experiences. You’ll be receiving an event invite soon!

  • Please email your photo and email to jointhelovelist@gmail.com with the email you’ve submitted with.

  • After completing your purchase, you’ll immediately receive an email confirmation from Squarespace containing the link to submit your profile. If you don’t see it in your inbox, please check your spam or promotions folder.

  • We want you off of our platform and on your wedding registry. Just make sure to tell your friends about us!

  • Our team vets candidates with a secret sauce behind the scenes, including reviewing video submissions, profiles and via phone calls with candidates.

  • For profile updates, please email jointhelovelist@gmail.com with your requested updates.