The Love List began with a women’s group Alexa Curtis launched in January 2025. After seeing how many incredible women were looking for real connections, she started reaching out to men to make thoughtful introductions. Those early matches took off—and The Love List was born.

The Love List does not offer refunds. If you can’t attend, you may transfer your ticket to a future event—just email jointhelovelist@gmail.com at least 24 hours before your scheduled event.

This is for anyone in New England looking for a new way to date.

Your profile and personal data are kept private and only viewed by our team. If you don’t want to appear in any photos or videos at events or on TikTok, let us know and we’ll mark your account no photo/no video. Email jointhelovelist@gmail.com (ideally 24+ hours before the event) or tell a staff member at check-in.

Originally from Mansfield, Alexa is a 27-year-old serial entrepreneur who is the founder and CEO of the #1 customizable microphone cover company, Chief Swag Officer.

She used to host a show called Fearless Everyday on Radio Disney, and hosts a weekly newsletter and podcast called Dare To Be Fearless now.

We have a variety of men and women on our list who are between ages 40-65, so yes!

A curated experience with vetted people at different locations across Connecticut.

Following our first event in Old Saybrook, three matches have been reported to our team and countless friendships.

Men: we suggest you wear jeans/slacks, a cool pair of kicks or loafers, and a nice shirt.

Women: Wear something feminine that feels authentic to you—comfortable, confident, and you. Our events are relationship-focused and respectful, so there’s no pressure to dress for a one-night vibe.

Interested in helping with future events/social media and content? Email jointhelovelist@gmail.com