The Love List · Events

Love List events

Private, vetted gatherings across New England. Every attendee is personally vetted and thoughtfully grouped by age and area, and every room is intentionally curated. Apply to the ones that speak to you.

How it works

Apply once. Meet intentionally.

Love List events are private by design. We review each RSVP, shape the room around age, location, and chemistry, then send the full details only once you’re accepted.

01

Apply to attend

Choose the gathering that speaks to you and submit your RSVP so we can learn a little about you.

02

We curate the room

Every attendee is reviewed so the guest list feels balanced, respectful, and worth showing up for.

03

You get the invite

If accepted, you’ll receive the private location and event details. Your card is only charged after acceptance.

On the calendar.

The Love List
Singles Mixer · 27 to 49ish

The Love List Singles Mixer

Saturday, September 19, 20262:00 – 4:00 PMGlastonbury, CT

Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List event is designed for those 27 to 49ish who are serious about finding something real. This isn’t speed dating. This isn’t a crowded bar. It’s The Love List experience: intentional matchmaking, a refined setting, and a carefully curated group of people ready to build meaningful, lasting connections.

The Love List
Singles Mixer · 30s to 60s+

The Love List Singles Mixer

Saturday, October 24, 20262:00 – 4:00 PMGroton, Connecticut

Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List event is designed for those in their 30s to 60s+ who are serious about finding something real. This isn’t speed dating. This isn’t a crowded bar. It’s The Love List experience: intentional matchmaking, a refined setting, and a carefully curated group of people ready to build meaningful, lasting connections.

The Love List
Singles Mixer

The Love List Singles Mixer

Saturday, October 31, 20262:00 – 4:00 PM ESTFairfield, CT

Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List Halloween Masquerade is for singles in their late 20s to late 40s who are serious about finding something real. Think mystery, chemistry, and a little bit of Halloween magic.

The Love List
Singles Mixer · late 20s to late 40s

The Love List Singles Mixer

Saturday, November 7, 20262:00 – 4:00 PMHartford, CT

Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List event is designed for those in their 20s to late 40s who are serious about finding something real. This isn’t speed dating. This isn’t a crowded bar. It’s The Love List experience: intentional matchmaking, a refined setting, and a carefully curated group of people ready to build meaningful, lasting connections.

What a Love List night looks like.

Curated & vetted attendees

Our gatherings are private and exclusive. Every attendee is personally vetted before attending, ensuring a respectful, safe, and engaging atmosphere. We bring together people from a wide variety of backgrounds, lifestyles, and professions, so every conversation stays fresh and meaningful. Even if you don’t meet a match, 90% of our attendees walk away with solid new friends.

Age-group mixers

Each event is tailored to a specific age group, with flexibility built in. If you feel comfortable, you may RSVP for an event up to seven years older or younger than the group’s range. This keeps connections natural while keeping the group balanced and enjoyable.

Apply to any event that piques your interest regardless of your age. If a similar match RSVPs, we’ll accept you in.

Why we’re different

Unlike open public mixers, our approach is quality over quantity. We value intentional connections and work to create a welcoming environment where attendees expand their social circles, spark friendships, and maybe even find something more.

What to expect

  • Small, invite-only gatherings built for genuine conversation
  • Rotating locations across New England
  • Thoughtfully matched groups for better social chemistry
  • A chance to meet people who share your interests, values, and outlook

Please note: your card is not charged unless you’re accepted into an event (up to 72 hours prior). If you’re not accepted, any hold is released back to your account within 48 to 72 hours.

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