The Love List · Testimonials

In their words.

Real members, real events, real relationships. No scripts, no stock quotes: this is what happens when you get off the apps.

Love List member at an event
Love List member at an event

I met Holly from a Love List arranged date and we hit it off right away. It was so nice to meet a person with similar interests and genuine desire to make a real connection.

We are now dating exclusively and are making plans for future adventures!

I strongly believe that dating apps are broken. I highly recommend The Love List for anyone who wants to find their person.

Mike
62 · Hartford

I had a wonderful experience so far with The Love List.

The highlight is the staff and how easy they are to work with. You can truly sense they care and want to genuinely help people connect.

The events are laid back, friendly, and stress and pressure free! I’ve had a great experience so far and will continue to use this service and won’t ever return to the apps.

I recommend anyone interested in making real connections to give The Love List a shot.

Matt
32 · Connecticut

The Love List has been a great experience!

I matched with someone who had similar experiences, chemistry, and shared professional ambition.

Even though we didn’t end up together, the Love List and Alexa listened to what I had to say and were thoughtful and helpful.

I am grateful to be in a network of like-minded people, and had a lot of fun at the last event!

Elizabeth
42 · Connecticut

I went to two events through the Love List. While I didn’t receive any matches from the first event in October, I decided to give it another try and went to one in November. I’m glad I didn’t lose hope as I am now in a relationship with one of the people I matched with. The Love List is a great opportunity to get off the apps, meet people in person, and to explore connections.

Emma M.
26 · Connecticut

I had an amazing time at The Love List Singles Mixer! The team was very professional and they ran a great event. I met some amazing people and I think I have a few dates lined up. Thank you as always for what you do for the community.

Albert
Hamden event · April 12

It took me a while to get the courage up to attend an event; once I did the Love List team made me feel comfortable and welcomed. It was great to talk to people who have attended events before, but also to know I was there with people who were also attending an event for the first time. It was a great event to talk to like-minded people who are sick of traditional dating and taking a risk at something slightly unconventional and putting themselves out there!

Sarah
Hamden event · April 12
Matched couple
Matched in November 2025 and they’re off the list

Off the apps. In love in 2026.

They matched in November 2025. By 2026, they were off the list — exactly the way it’s supposed to work.

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