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Volunteering with The Love List
Volunteer with The Love List at Open Doors to support their Back to School Corner. The volunteer fee is donated directly to Open Doors.
The Love List · Events
Love List events
Private, vetted gatherings across New England. Every attendee is personally vetted and thoughtfully grouped by age and area, and every room is intentionally curated. Apply to the ones that speak to you.
How it works
Apply once. Meet intentionally.
Love List events are private by design. We review each RSVP, shape the room around age, location, and chemistry, then send the full details only once you’re accepted.
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Apply to attend
Choose the gathering that speaks to you and submit your RSVP so we can learn a little about you.
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We curate the room
Every attendee is reviewed so the guest list feels balanced, respectful, and worth showing up for.
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You get the invite
If accepted, you’ll receive the private location and event details. Your card is only charged after acceptance.
On the calendar.
The Love List
Singles Mixer · Mid 20s to 50
The Love List Singles Mixer
Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List event is designed for those in their mid 20s to 50s who are serious about finding something real. It’s intentional matchmaking, a refined setting, and a carefully curated group of people ready to build meaningful, lasting connections.
The Love List
The Love List Singles Mixer
The Love List Singles Mixer
Saturday, January 9, 20274:00Hartford, Connecticut
This isn’t speed dating. This isn’t a crowded bar.
The Love List
The Love List Valentine's Singles Mixer
The Love List Valentine's Singles Mixer
Sunday, February 14, 20272:00Fairfield, Connecticut
Hosted in Connecticut and open to singles across New England, this exclusive Love List Valentine's Singles Mixer is for singles in their 20s to late 50s who are serious about finding something real.
What a Love List night looks like.
Curated & vetted attendees
Our gatherings are private and exclusive. Every attendee is personally vetted before attending, ensuring a respectful, safe, and engaging atmosphere. We bring together people from a wide variety of backgrounds, lifestyles, and professions, so every conversation stays fresh and meaningful. Even if you don’t meet a match, 90% of our attendees walk away with solid new friends.
Age-group mixers
Each event is tailored to a specific age group, with flexibility built in. If you feel comfortable, you may RSVP for an event up to seven years older or younger than the group’s range. This keeps connections natural while keeping the group balanced and enjoyable.
Love List events are limited to individuals who are 21 years of age or older (21+). Apply to any event that piques your interest regardless of your age group. If a similar match RSVPs, we’ll accept you in.
Why we’re different
Unlike open public mixers, our approach is quality over quantity. We value intentional connections and work to create a welcoming environment where attendees expand their social circles, spark friendships, and maybe even find something more.
What to expect
- Small, invite-only gatherings built for genuine conversation
- Rotating locations across New England
- Thoughtfully matched groups for better social chemistry
- A chance to meet people who share your interests, values, and outlook
Please note: your card is not charged unless you’re accepted into an event (up to 72 hours prior). If you’re not accepted, any hold is released back to your account within 48 to 72 hours.