Luxury Matchmaking
💌 The Access List
$5
Receive our bi-weekly Love List newsletter
Be included in our exclusive matchmaking network
Become eligible to be selected for personalized matches when higher-tier clients request them
Get the chance to be featured in our Single Spotlight
Looking for clarity in your dating life? 💫
Book a 30-minute one-on-one session with Alexa to talk through your dating goals, your type, and even the patterns that may be holding you back. This is your chance to receive personalized guidance, build your confidence, and gain real insight into what will help you move forward.
📩 To book, email jointhelovelist@gmail.com with your full name and best contact information. (Please note: DMs are not monitored and will not be answered.)
We’ll follow up with scheduling details and next steps — helping you feel more confident, more prepared, and one step closer to finding the right match.
🌟The Confidence List
$75
Connect with singles in a curated, community-driven setting.
With The Social List, you’ll gain access to exclusive Love List events designed to bring people together in a relaxed but elevated atmosphere. These aren’t your typical singles events— they’re gatherings created to spark authentic connections and build real community.
Access to private, invite-only mixers and events
Meet vetted singles in person — no swiping, no screens
A warm, community atmosphere where friendships and romance can both grow
Carefully selected venues with an elevated, social vibe
Opportunities to connect beyond dating — you may leave with friends, not just potential matches
Upcoming events are listed in advance (below). Members may apply to attend, and invitations are extended when we identify strong potential matches for that event.
The Social List is all about shared experiences — a space where you can meet like-minded people in real life, and maybe even discover someone who’s more than just a friend.
🎉 The Social List
$100
Ready to skip the endless swiping and go straight to real connections?
With The Match List, you’ll receive a carefully chosen introduction from our vetted pool of singles — handpicked with your compatibility in mind.
Includes a full profile review and matchmaking questionnaire
Enjoy a fully organized first date: we set the time, location, and provide a short bio of your match 48 hours in advance (no photos — to keep it authentic)
Post-date feedback follow-up to refine future matches
No endless messaging — just meaningful introductions curated for you
If plans fall through, one complimentary reschedule is included
Details: Dates are scheduled at least one week in advance. Cancellations within 24 hours incur a $30 fee. After three last-minute cancellations, membership is suspended.
💖 The Match List
$150
What’s included?
Ready to meet your match?
Make sure you’ve completed your submission and checked your email for your profile details. This ensures we have everything we need to start the matchmaking process and connect you with the right person.
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Our bi-weekly newsletter gives you access to the best singles of the week.
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Follow the journey at @jointhelovelist
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Our IRL events are boujee, sexy, and enticing. You may meet a match there, who knows?
Upcoming events
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CASTING CALL
10. 26
We’re casting the best men in Connecticut.
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The Love List Singles Mixer
10.27 7:00-8:30 PM
Step into an unforgettable evening designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in central Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated for individuals ages 27–40 who are serious about finding meaningful connections.
Though our event is hosted in Connecticut, this event is open to people in New England.
