The Love List Members
Help Someone Find Their Match
Know someone ready to meet the right person? Step into Cupid’s shoes and introduce them to our network. With a little nudge from you, they could discover a meaningful connection that changes their love story. It’s fun, thoughtful, and could make all the difference.
Apply to Be a Highlighted Single
Ready for a little spotlight? Apply to be one of our Highlighted Singles and get showcased to high-quality, intentional daters. It’s a chance to elevate your profile, attract aligned matches, and open the door to new possibilities.
Explore One on One Matchmaking
Experience a fully guided, bespoke matchmaking process built around you. Our team personally curates introductions, manages the details, and brings clarity and confidence to your dating journey. When you’re ready for something real, we’re ready to lead the way.
As a Love List Member, You Can Enjoy…
Being a Love List member gives you access to curated singles, exclusive events, and thoughtfully designed experiences that help you make meaningful connections. Every resource is crafted to give you the opportunities, tools, and confidence to navigate your dating journey on your terms.
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Receive our newsletter, featuring two singles in your area who are intentionally looking for meaningful connections. Each spotlight gives you the opportunity to learn more about someone new and engage if you feel a connection, helping you discover potential matches in a thoughtful, curated way.
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All member event reservations-whether new or returning-go through our carefully designed vetting process.
This ensures attendees share aligned values, lifestyles, and relationship goals, creating an environment primed for meaningful connections and genuine interactions.
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Take your Love List experience to the next level with optional premium services, from confidence coaching to curated introductions, from styling to standout profiles. These enhancements are designed to help you make the best impression, attract aligned matches, and maximize your opportunities to connect.
Upcoming events
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Singles Mixer
12/13/25 - Arugula Bistro & Bar
Step into an unforgettable afternoon designed exclusively for singles who are ready for something real. Hosted at a secret location in West Hartford, Connecticut, this intimate mixer is curated for mid-twenties to mid-fourties who are serious about finding meaningful connections.
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Upcoming Event
January 2026 - Massachusetts
Stay tuned for more details.
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Upcoming Event
January 2026 - Connecticut
Stay tuned for more details.
FAQs
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Starting something new can feel overwhelming, and that's completely normal. The Love List is designed to guide you every step of the way. Begin by joining our community, exploring the bi-weekly newsletter, and attending events that feel right for you. Our team is here to support you and help you take thoughtful steps toward meaningful connections.
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You can update your profile at any time by emailing our team at support@jointhelovelist.com with your new information, photos, or preferences. We'll make the changes for you to ensure your profile stays current and reflects the best version of you.
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We host exclusive events throughout the year, typically several times a month, in carefully selected locations across New England. Each venue is chosen to create a comfortable, intimate setting where members can meet like-minded singles in real life.
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Absolutely! If you're interested in helping with events or supporting the Love List community, we'd love to hear from you. Reach out to our team to explore ways you can contribute and play an active role in creating a welcoming, engaging experience for all members.